Any leader would fall insulted when not have the courage to change himself. Any successful person would collapse if he did not have the courage to change himself. The key word is courage. It's easy taunting dare, dare to blaspheme was easy, but, not just anyone who dared look at their own shortcomings. This property only people who truly successful. » read more
People who dare to open the shortcomings of others, are common. People who dare to discuss other people, it is not special. Because it could be people who do not have anything once. But, if anyone dared to look at ourselves lack, asked about the lack of systematic, and he created a system to see the lack of him, this is a great candidate.
Changing self-consciously, it also change others. Although he did not say a word to change it, saying his actions have become very valuable for other people. Believe me, our determination to improve himself, will make others look and feel.
Starting A Change part 2
Beautiful Prayer
I ask Allah to remove suffering. » read more
Allah replied, No.
That's not to I put, but for you to beat him.
I ask Allah to improve my disability.
Allah replied, No.
The soul is perfect, the body is only temporary.
I ask Allah to reward my patience.
Allah replied, No.
Patience is the result of the difficulty; was not awarded, it must be learned.
I ask Allah to give me happiness.
Allah replied, No.
I give thanks. Happiness is up to you.
Prevent Hostilities
On a day Akhnas bin Syarik came to the Prophet Muhammad. In front of the Prophet, declared Akhnas faith and accept Islam. But, in the middle of the road, after meeting the Prophet's, Akhnas just make chaos, destroying crops, livestock, and assets of Muslims. Then, revealed this verse:''Of the people there are people saying about the life of this world pleases you, and be witnesses to Allah it (the truth) in his heart, but he is yet (the enemy) the hardest.''(Al - Baqarah: 204). » read more
Hostility as did Akhnas a major crime. According to Imam Ghazali, it is the mother of hostilities and the base of all evil. Malice or hostility rather than ordinary crime, but a big crime that causes the curse. The Prophet said,''The most wrath of Allah is a person who is always beating the drums of hostilities.''(Bukhari).
Beautiful Bowl, Honey and a Hair
Prophet Muhammad, with his friends, Abubakar, Umar, Uthman, and Ali Ali's visit to the house. At home Ali, Fatima Sayidatina honey served to those who laid in a beautiful bowl, and when it was served a bowl of honey shipped with a hair in the bowl. Prophet Muhammad then asked all of his friend to make a comparison of these three objects (a beautiful bowl, honey, and a hair). » read more
Abubakar r.a. said, "faith prettier than bowl this beautiful, believers it sweeter than honey, and defend that faith more susah than pursue single hair".
Umar r.a. said, "kingdom prettier than bowl this beautiful, a king it sweeter than honey, and govern justly it lebihsulit from meniti single hair".
Utsman r.a. said, "science prettier than bowl This lovely, person claiming science sweeter from honey, and ber'amal with science owned was harder than meniti single hair".