Starting A Change part 2

Any leader would fall insulted when not have the courage to change himself. Any successful person would collapse if he did not have the courage to change himself. The key word is courage. It's easy taunting dare, dare to blaspheme was easy, but, not just anyone who dared look at their own shortcomings. This property only people who truly successful.

People who dare to open the shortcomings of others, are common. People who dare to discuss other people, it is not special. Because it could be people who do not have anything once. But, if anyone dared to look at ourselves lack, asked about the lack of systematic, and he created a system to see the lack of him, this is a great candidate.

Changing self-consciously, it also change others. Although he did not say a word to change it, saying his actions have become very valuable for other people. Believe me, our determination to improve himself, will make others look and feel.

Indeed the influence of self-determination to change will not be felt spontaneous. But believe me, it will imprint in the minds of people. The longer, the former would make the sympathy and encouraged to also make change for the better. This will continue to affect, and finally like a snowball. Changes greater rolling.

So if anyone asks about the difficulty of changing the child, the difficulty of changing the wife, the answer in one's own self. Do not always blame others, when they do not want to change. If we as ustadz, kyai, not many students blame him. Ask yourself first. If we as leaders, do not much blame the employees, just see myself as anything.

If we as state leaders, do not much blame the people. Better persistent government officials to better themselves so they can serve as an example. Insya Allah, though without much to say, he will make changes quickly felt, if brave diri.Itu better repair than many said, but without the courage to be a role model. Do not talk too much. Better mean it better themselves. Make words more subtle, more noble attitude, work ethic more earnest, worship increasingly tough. This will be witnessed by people.

Talk about it a good proposition. But the talks will backfire when our behavior does not match the arguments in question. Far more important people who do not speak the argument, but do fit the argument. Although not said, he has become the theorem proof.

Hopefully, we can become people who realize that success starts from the courage to see their own shortcomings. Amien.